I'm really in need of some advice right now. I've been crying on and off all day because tomorrow I'm supposed to bring my 14-year-old golden retriever, Bailey, to the vet to be put to sleep. She's been the best companion I could have ever asked for. Over the past year, her health has really declined; she has severe arthritis, she's mostly blind, and she's been having a lot of trouble getting up and around. Her personality is still there, but she seems to be in pain and discomfort most of the time, even with the meds the vet prescribed. I feel so guilty even considering this, but I also don't want her to suffer. How did you all make this decision? Am I doing the right thing for her? Any words of wisdom or reassurance would be really appreciated right now. Thank you.
Hello there,
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're facing such a difficult decision with your senior dog. It's one of those heart-wrenching parts of loving a pet, and it’s okay to feel unsure. Euthanasia is a compassionate option when your dog’s quality of life has significantly declined, and it's important to make this decision with their best interests at heart.
Some signs that might indicate it's time include persistent pain that can't be managed at home, frequent vomiting or diarrhea causing dehydration, inability to stand or move without help, loss of interest in favorite activities, or changes in weight and appetite. These are signs that your beloved pet might be suffering.
At home, you can monitor your dog’s comfort level by ensuring they have a cozy place to rest, offering gentle affection, and speaking softly to reassure them. Keep track of their eating and bathroom habits, and encourage hydration.
If you notice labored breathing, uncontrolled bleeding, or severe distress, these are more urgent signs that require immediate attention.
It's totally normal to have more questions or need support. I recommend booking a video consult with a vet through Dial A Vet. We can discuss your concerns in more detail and help guide you through this process with compassion and care.
Take care, and remember that you’re doing your best for your furry friend.
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