I could really use some advice right now. I’m completely heartbroken because tomorrow morning, I have to say goodbye to my best buddy, Max. He’s been by my side for 14 years, through everything, and now his health has declined so much that I have to make this terrible decision. I want to make his last day the best it can be, filled with all the things he loves. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to make his last day as peaceful and special as possible? Maybe something you wish you had done or something that can help us both with this transition? I’m struggling with this, and I’d really appreciate any advice or thoughts you have. Thank you.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this, but please know that you're doing a loving and compassionate thing for your dog. Spending the day together, giving lots of love and comfort, is one of the kindest things you can do.
Today is all about making your dog feel as comfortable as possible. Offer them their favorite treats and, if they’re up to it, some gentle play or snuggles. Create a calm environment with their favorite blanket or toy. You might want to stick to your usual routine as much as possible, as this can provide a sense of normalcy.
If your dog is on medications, continue administering them as directed by your vet. It’s okay to have lots of mixed emotions right now, but try to focus on the happy moments you’ve shared.
Keep an eye on how your dog is feeling, especially if they’re in pain or having trouble breathing. If any severe symptoms appear suddenly, such as seizures or significant distress, contact your vet immediately.
When you’re ready, consider booking a video consult with us. We’re here to answer any questions you have and to support you during this difficult time. You're not alone in this.
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