I’m really struggling and could use some advice or support. Yesterday, I made the heart-wrenching decision to put Luna, my 14-year-old tabby, to sleep. She’d been with me through thick and thin, and this whole situation is tearing me apart. Luna had been suffering from kidney failure for the past few months, and despite trying everything the vet suggested—special diets, fluids, medications—her quality of life was rapidly declining. She was barely eating and seemed so tired and in pain all the time. The vet gently suggested that it might be time to let her go, but now I’m just consumed with doubt. Did I let her go too soon? Maybe I should have tried something else or given her more time? I keep replaying her last moments over and over—I just want to know if I did the right thing. Thanks for listening, guys. I really appreciate it.
I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's such a difficult decision, and your feelings are completely understandable. Choosing to put a beloved pet to sleep is one of the hardest parts of being a pet owner. It's a decision made out of love and a desire to reduce their suffering.
There are many reasons a pet might need to be euthanized, whether due to a terminal illness, severe injury, or declining quality of life. Cats, in particular, can be good at hiding their pain, so you likely made your decision with their best interests at heart. It might help to remember that you gave your cat a peaceful exit from the world, free from pain and distress.
At-home, it's important to give yourself grace and time to grieve. Surround yourself with supportive friends or family who understand the bond you had with your cat. If you have other pets, they might also show signs of grief or confusion, so offering them extra love and attention can be beneficial for both them and you.
Signs that might indicate you're struggling more than expected with the loss include extended periods of severe sadness, difficulty with daily tasks, or guilt that doesn’t seem to improve.
If you find you need more support or have further questions, consider booking a video consult with us at Dial A Vet. We'd be here to listen, support, and help in any way we can.
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