I need some advice and honestly, just a place to vent a little. My beloved cat, Bella, had a sudden episode yesterday. She just collapsed and wasn’t responding. When I rushed her to the vet, they told me she wasn’t breathing and asked if I wanted them to try CPR. In that moment, all I could think about was how much she hated vet visits and being handled by strangers. I remembered reading somewhere that CPR can be really traumatic, and I was panicking, so I declined it. Now, I can't stop replaying the situation, wondering if I made the wrong call. I’m heartbroken and second-guessing myself constantly. Have any of you been in a similar situation? How do you cope with the guilt and uncertainty? Any advice would be appreciated.
Hi there! I'm sorry to hear you're in a tough spot, and I can imagine how overwhelming it must feel. Let’s talk through it together. Deciding whether to perform CPR is no easy decision, and there are several factors to consider.
CPR for pets can sometimes be a viable option, depending on the pet's overall health and the underlying reason for its condition. Often, CPR is most effective when the cause is a sudden, reversible medical event like choking or certain heart conditions. However, if your pet was experiencing a long-term decline in health, such as advanced age, chronic illness, or terminal conditions, CPR might not have been able to offer a meaningful recovery.
It's natural to second-guess decisions during such emotional moments, but remember that prioritizing your pet's dignity and comfort was an act of love. Signs that indicate a need for veterinary assessment include difficulty breathing, unresponsiveness, and a sudden collapse.
If you're still feeling uncertain or would like more reassurance, it might help to book a video consult with one of our vets at Dial A Vet. We can discuss your concerns in detail and explore any other questions you might have. You're doing the best you can for your beloved furry friend.
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