I’m feeling really torn right now and could use some advice. My fur baby, Barney, is 11.5 years old and has recently been diagnosed with a tumor. The vet says surgery is an option, but I'm deeply conflicted about whether to put him through it. I know he's considered a senior and the operation isn't without risks, but the thought of losing him so soon is unbearable. He's still so full of life, wagging his tail and begging for treats like usual, and I can't tell if I’m being selfish by wanting him to stay longer or if I’m considering his quality of life properly. Is it cruel to make him go through surgery at his age, or could it give him a few more good years? Any experiences or advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm just at a loss and want to do right by him.
Thanks for reaching out with your concern. It's completely natural to worry about whether surgery is the right choice, especially for a senior dog. The decision to remove a tumor depends on multiple factors, such as the tumor's type, location, impact on your dog's quality of life, and overall health.
Many tumors in older dogs are benign and don't necessarily require removal unless they're causing discomfort or impacting daily activities. However, some can be malignant and may spread if not treated. Your vet would typically recommend removal if there's a significant risk to your dog's health or comfort.
At home, keep an eye on the tumor for changes in size, color, or shape. Watch for signs that could indicate it's causing issues, such as pain, bleeding, or affecting your pup's mobility. Also, monitor their eating habits, activity levels, and behavior for any sudden changes.
If your dog seems to be in pain or the tumor looks infected, seek veterinary advice promptly. It’s essential to balance extending your dog’s life with ensuring it remains pain-free and happy. Trust your vet’s guidance, as they can assess what’s in your pet's best interests.
I recommend booking a video consult with a vet on Dial A Vet, where we can discuss your dog’s specific situation in more detail. You're not alone in this, and we're here to help you make the best decision for your furry friend.
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