I really need some advice and maybe a bit of support. About a week ago, a stray cat that's been hanging around my neighborhood gave birth right on my front porch. I did my best to care for her and the kittens, but I recently made the decision to find good homes for the little ones since I couldn't keep them myself. It’s been about four days since they were adopted, but the mom cat is still on my porch, constantly looking around and meowing, as if she's searching for her babies. It's breaking my heart to see her like this, and I’m wondering if this kind of behavior is normal. How long does it usually take for a mother cat to adjust after being separated from her kittens? I’m worried about her and not sure what I should do. Any advice or similar experiences would be really appreciated!
Hello there,
I understand your concern about the mother cat. It’s quite common for mother cats to look for their kittens after they’ve been separated. Cats are very instinctual, and this behavior reflects her natural response to sudden changes in her environment. It can be heartbreaking to watch, but it's part of her maternal instincts kicking in.
Typically, mother cats can display signs of searching or restlessness for several days, sometimes even a bit longer, as they adjust to their kittens not being there. This period can vary depending on the individual cat.
To help her through this transition, try to make her feel secure on your porch. You can provide her with a tasty meal, a cozy blanket, and some gentle attention if she's open to it. These small gestures can help her feel more comfortable and loved.
Watch for signs of distress, such as refusing to eat, lethargy, or excessive vocalizing, as these could indicate she’s struggling more profoundly or that there’s an underlying health issue. If you do notice these signs, or if she doesn't seem to be adjusting over time, it's a good idea to have a chat with a vet to ensure she’s healthy and to discuss the best next steps for her.
Feel free to book a video consult with us at Dial A Vet, and we'd be happy to offer more personalized guidance.
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