I'm really struggling with a decision about my 12-year-old dog, Bella, and I could use some advice. She's been my best friend since she was a pup, and it breaks my heart to see her like this. Recently, she's been diagnosed with a couple of health issues—chronic arthritis and some kidney problems. Despite all this, she still has so much energy. She’s always eager for a walk and wags her tail every time she sees me. But I can see she's in pain sometimes, and I don’t want her to suffer just because I can't bear to let her go. I’m at a loss here—how do I know when it’s time to say goodbye? I feel so torn between not wanting her to suffer and not wanting to give up on her too soon. Any advice from those who’ve been through something similar would really mean a lot to me right now.
Hi there! It sounds like your pup still has so much joy and energy, despite her health conditions. This is great news, and it can be a good indicator that it's not quite her time yet. Euthanasia is such a heart-wrenching decision, and it’s important to consider your dog's quality of life first.
Health conditions can vary widely, from chronic issues like arthritis or diabetes to more serious diseases like cancer. If her conditions are manageable and she still seems happy, engaged, and active, it might be worth exploring how to improve her comfort and well-being at home.
For example, ensuring she has a comfortable place to rest, sticking to a healthy diet, providing appropriate exercise, and keeping up to date with vet appointments can all be helpful. Watch for signs of serious issues, like significant pain, difficulty breathing, or drastic changes in behavior or appetite. These could indicate a more urgent need to revisit her care plan.
If you're uncertain, it might be helpful to have a more in-depth conversation about her specific conditions and how they affect her. Considering a video consult with one of our vets on Dial A Vet could provide more personalized advice and support during this tough time. Remember, you're not alone in navigating these decisions.
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