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Question:

Please give me reassurance that it really was my Cat's time.

I'm really struggling and could use some support right now. I had to say goodbye to my sweet cat, Luna, yesterday, and I can't shake this overwhelming guilt and doubt. She was 15 and had been slowing down a lot lately, but I just thought it was because of her age. Over the past week, she started refusing food and water, and barely moved from her spot by the window. The vet said her kidneys were failing, and we decided it was best to let her go peacefully before she started suffering more. I know it was probably the right decision, but I can't help but question if I acted too soon. Was there something more I could have done? Did I read the signs wrong? If anyone has been through this, please share your experience. I need some reassurance from fellow cat lovers who understand how much these little furballs mean to us. Thank you.

Answer:

Hello there,



I'm truly sorry to hear about your loss. It’s never easy to say goodbye to a beloved pet, and it's natural to seek reassurance about the timing. Sometimes, signs like weight loss, lethargy, changes in appetite, grooming habits, or labored breathing can indicate that a cat's health is declining. Cats are experts at hiding discomfort, so noticing these signs might mean they felt unwell for some time.



There are a variety of conditions common in older cats, such as kidney disease, hyperthyroidism, or heart issues, that can gradually affect their quality of life. If your cat demonstrated notable distress or a significant decline in daily activities and comfort, it might indeed have been time.



When reflecting, try to focus on the good times and the love you shared with your cat. They would appreciate all the care you provided. If you're feeling uncertain about any symptoms or the situation, you could greatly benefit from a chat with a vet who can offer more personalized guidance and support.



Your peace of mind matters, so please consider booking a consult with us at Dial A Vet. We’re here to help you through this delicate time.

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 23, 2025

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