I'm really struggling right now and could use some advice... Our sweet old cat, Whiskers, has been with us for nearly 17 years, and lately, he's really been slowing down. He's always been a trooper, but I can tell he's nearing the end of his journey. I'm having a hard time at work because all I do is worry about him. I'm terrified of coming home one day to find that he's peacefully passed away. I work long hours, and the thought of him being all alone breaks my heart. I just don't know what to do if I come home to that. How do you even begin to handle something like that on your own? Should there be a plan in place? Or should I consider staying home more? Any advice on how to prepare emotionally and practically for this possibility would be so appreciated. Thank you.
I'm truly sorry to hear about your senior cat's condition. It's tough to see our pets age and face health challenges. If the time comes when your cat passes at home, there are a few steps you can take to handle the situation with care and compassion.
First, take a moment to be with your cat. It's okay to experience the emotions that come with this loss. When you’re ready, you can gently wrap your cat in a soft towel or blanket. This helps in moving them and allows for a respectful way to transport their body.
Next, consider your options for aftercare, which typically include burial or cremation. Contact your veterinarian or a pet crematorium to discuss these choices. Some local pet services may offer home pickup, or you may prefer to bring your cat to the vet yourself.
While your cat's current decline may be due to aging or chronic illness, be watchful for any sudden changes like severe pain, labored breathing, or unresponsiveness, as these could indicate an urgent issue.
If you need more personalized guidance or have questions about your cat’s health or end-of-life care, booking a video consult with a vet from Dial A Vet can be an invaluable resource. They can offer more tailored advice for your specific situation.
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