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Question:

Old cat, is rehoming cruel or kind?

I really need some advice and I’m feeling pretty torn. I have an elderly cat named Whiskers who’s been with me for over 15 years. He's my furry buddy, but life lately has been super chaotic. I recently started a new job that demands so much more of my time, and on top of that, we're expecting our first baby soon. I worry I can’t give Whiskers the attention and care he deserves anymore. I’ve considered rehoming him to an acquaintance who loves cats and has experience with older ones, but I’m struggling with guilt. Would it be cruel to part with him at this stage of his life, or is finding him a more attentive home the kinder choice? I’m just scared of making the wrong decision and regret either way. Any thoughts or similar experiences would really help me out. Thanks a ton.

Answer:

Hi there! I totally understand why you'd be considering this decision for your senior cat. Rehoming an older cat can be both kind or challenging, depending on the circumstances. The key is to focus on your cat’s well-being and quality of life.

Many older cats may struggle with changes, such as a new environment, which could lead to stress or anxiety. However, if your current situation means your cat’s needs aren’t being met, finding a more suitable home might be the compassionate choice.

Consider your cat’s health, socialization needs, and comfort. Older cats often require regular vet visits, a special diet, or medications. If meeting these needs is difficult, a new home that can better provide for them might offer a happier life.

If you decide to rehome, look for someone experienced with senior cats in a calm, stable environment. Talk with the new caregiver about any special needs or routines your cat has to ensure a smooth transition.

Watch for signs of stress in your cat, such as hiding, decreased appetite, or changes in litter box habits. These might indicate discomfort or a health problem that needs addressing.

If you’d like more personalized guidance or are worried about your cat’s stress levels, consider booking a video consult with one of our vets on Dial A Vet. We're here to help!

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 18, 2025

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