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My sister is not okay to spay her cat. How can I convince her to do it?

I'm really struggling with a situation and could use some advice. My sister has this beautiful cat, Luna, who just had her first litter of kittens, and I'm genuinely concerned about not only Luna's health but also the future of all those little ones. I've tried talking to her about spaying Luna, but she's convinced that letting her have more litters is natural and healthy. She doesn’t seem to see the risks involved, and honestly, it's breaking my heart. I've shown her articles and even brought up the issue of potential overpopulation, but she brushes it off, saying it’s not a big deal. I'm really worried about what could happen if she doesn’t change her mind. How do I get through to her without stepping on her toes too much? I just want what’s best for Luna and her future kittens. Any advice would be appreciated!

Answer:

I completely understand your concern; it’s important to discuss the benefits of spaying with compassion and facts. Spaying a female cat is a responsible choice that helps control the pet population and can significantly improve a cat’s health. Unspayed cats can go into heat frequently, often as early as five months old, which can be stressful both for the cat and the owner. It also prevents uterine infections and reduces the risk of breast tumors, which are malignant in about 90% of cats.

At home, addressing your sister’s worries with empathy and understanding can be helpful. Bring up any specific concerns she has—whether it’s about the surgery itself, recovery, or cost—and try to address each one. You might also share that modern veterinary practices employ safe techniques, and complications are rare, especially when spaying is done when the cat is young and healthy.

If your sister notices signs like increased vocalization, restlessness, or unusual behavior due to her cat being in heat, it might help underline the importance of spaying. Encourage her to look out for signs of any more serious issues, like changes in appetite or excessive licking, which could indicate a need to see a vet even sooner.

Consider booking a video consult with one of our Dial A Vet professionals. We can offer personalized advice, answer her questions, and put her mind at ease about the procedure.

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 17, 2025

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