My partner failed their veterinary dentistry boards part 1 - how do I best support them?

Hello there! I’m so sorry to hear about your partner’s recent experience with their exam. Veterinary exams, especially specialized ones like dentistry boards, can be incredibly challenging, and it’s completely normal to feel disappointed after not passing.



First off, offer your partner a listening ear. Sometimes, just having someone who’s willing to listen without judgment can be immensely comforting. Encourage them to share their feelings and remind them it’s okay to feel upset or frustrated. Acknowledge their hard work leading up to the exam and emphasize that this setback does not define their abilities or dedication to veterinary medicine.



You could also help by suggesting to take some time off or do relaxing activities together to recharge. This could be a walk in the park, cooking a favorite meal, or enjoying a movie night. When they’re ready, you might help them formulate a study plan or find resources that could assist them in preparing for the next attempt.



Pay attention to any signs your partner might be struggling more than usual, like changes in sleep, appetite, or mood. If so, suggest they talk to a mental health professional who specializes in helping those in demanding professions.



If you both need more advice, booking a video consult with one of our vets could provide additional guidance and support. We're here to help in any way we can!