I don’t even know where to start right now… This morning, I woke up and checked on Max like I always do, and he just wouldn’t wake up. We had our usual walk last night, and everything seemed fine—he was as playful as ever, running around the park and chasing his tail like he always does. He’s been a part of our family for 11 years, and I can’t believe he’s gone. I’m totally lost and don’t know what steps I’m supposed to take here. I feel like I should be doing something, but my brain’s just not working. Has anyone else been through this? What do I do now?
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Losing a pet is incredibly hard, and it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed right now. Let’s take one step at a time to ensure you're supported through this process.
First, if you haven’t already, you might want to contact your veterinarian or a local animal control agency to discuss options for aftercare. They can provide guidance on burial, cremation, or other services you might consider. Remember, it's important to honor your pet in a way that feels right for you and your family.
Next, allow yourself the space to grieve. Losing a pet is like losing a family member, and it's okay to feel a range of emotions. There are pet loss support groups and hotlines available if you’d like to talk about your feelings with others who understand.
If you're curious about gaining insight into what might have happened to your dog, a necropsy (animal autopsy) can sometimes be done to provide answers. You can inquire about this with a vet if it feels important to you.
Should you have any questions about what steps to take next or if you'd like support, consider booking a video consult with Dial A Vet. We’re here to help you navigate through this difficult time.
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