I don’t know what’s going on with our cat lately, and it’s starting to stress me out. She’s always been super sweet and a total lap cat with me and my husband, but whenever our friends come over, she turns into this little ball of fury. Last night, she even hissed and swatted at my friend when she tried to pet her, which has never happened before. I’m worried because we’ve got people visiting more often lately, and I hate having to shut her in another room just to keep the peace. Could it be something we’re doing wrong? She’s around five years old now and always been pretty chill, so this behavior is just so unlike her. Anyone have any ideas?
I completely understand why you're worried about your cat's behavior around friends. It's not uncommon for cats to be territorial or protective of their home and family, showing aggression towards visitors while remaining sweet to you and your husband. Changes in behavior like this can be due to several factors, including fear, stress, lack of socialization, or even underlying medical issues.
First, it’s essential to ensure your cat has a safe space to retreat to when visitors come over. This could be a favorite room or a cozy corner where they won't be disturbed. Consider using pheromone diffusers, which can create a calming atmosphere for your cat. Additionally, introducing your friends to your cat gradually, using treats or toys as positive reinforcement, can help build a more positive association.
However, keep an eye out for signs that might indicate a serious issue, such as changes in eating or litter box habits, excessive grooming, or aggression that seems to escalate. These could suggest a health problem that needs attention.
Since behavior can be complex with multiple potential causes, I recommend booking a video consult with Dial A Vet. Together, we can dig deeper into your cat's behavior and explore tailored solutions to help everyone in your home feel comfortable.
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