fellow dog lovers, I really need some advice or maybe just a little reassurance. I've got two dogs, Buddy (a three-year-old golden retriever) and Luna (a two-year-old golden retriever), and Luna just went into heat for the first time. Buddy has been absolutely losing his mind. He's usually a sweet, calm boy, but now he's whining nonstop, trying to mount her every chance he gets, and follows her around the house like he’s glued to her tail. It’s stressing me out, and poor Luna seems exhausted too. I've separated them as best as I can, but Buddy keeps escaping his makeshift barriers. It breaks my heart to see them both so distressed. What can I do to keep Buddy calm and Luna comfortable? Any tips or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated, I'm at my wits' end!
Hello there! It sounds like you’re dealing with quite an energetic situation at home. When a female dog is in heat, it’s completely natural for a male dog to become extra attentive. This behavior is driven by the mating instinct, and it can lead to increased energy, agitation, and restlessness in male dogs.
To help manage this, providing distractions can be beneficial. Offer stimulating toys or engage him in regular exercise and playtime, which may help tire him out. You might also consider keeping your dogs separated when unsupervised to prevent any unwanted behaviors.
However, it’s crucial to watch for signs of excessive stress in your male dog. This might include refusal to eat, excessive panting, or severe anxiety, which could indicate he’s having a hard time coping with the situation.
If you're not planning to breed, spaying and neutering can help reduce such behaviors in the long term.
If you're concerned or feel things are getting out of hand, it might be helpful to book a video consult with one of our vets at Dial A Vet. We can provide tailored advice and help ensure both your dogs stay happy and healthy through this period.
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