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Question:

Is it time to put my 11.5 y/o dog down or should I give it some more time?

I’m really struggling with a heartbreaking decision and could use some advice. I have an 11.5-year-old lab mix named Buddy who’s been my rock for so long. The past few months have been tough, though. He's been having more bad days than good—he’s not eating much, sleeps a lot, and has trouble getting up the stairs. We've been to the vet multiple times, and they say it's a combination of arthritis and age, but the meds don’t seem to be helping as much anymore. Yesterday, he looked at me with those tired eyes and my heart just shattered. I’m torn because some days he still gets excited for short walks or a car ride, but mostly he seems so weary. I don’t want to prematurely end his life if he still has some joy left, but I also don’t want him to suffer. How do I know when it’s truly time to say goodbye? Any experiences or advice would be incredibly helpful right now. Thanks in advance.

Answer:

Hi there,



I'm truly sorry that you're facing this difficult decision with your furry friend. Determining the right time to say goodbye to a beloved pet can be incredibly challenging, but there are a few things you can consider that might help guide you.



First, take a look at your dog's overall quality of life. Assess whether they are still able to enjoy activities they once loved. Are they eating well and maintaining a healthy weight? If your dog is in pain, struggling to get around, or uninterested in family interactions, this could indicate they may not be as comfortable anymore.



Common causes for a decrease in quality of life in aging dogs include arthritis, cognitive dysfunction, or internal organ problems. Keep an eye out for signs like persistent vomiting, diarrhea, labored breathing, or extreme fatigue, which could indicate an underlying health issue needing urgent attention.



At home, you can ensure your dog has a cozy, quiet spot to rest and provide support with ramps or special bedding if mobility is a concern.



However, the best way to determine your pet's needs is by consulting with a veterinarian who can fully assess their health. Please consider booking a video consult with Dial A Vet to discuss how to make your dog's time as comfortable and loving as possible. Remember, you're not alone in making this decision, and we're here to support you.

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 23, 2025

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