I'm feeling really torn right now and could use some advice. Recently, my beloved cat, Mittens, went through a really rough time medically. We did everything we could think of to help her, and our vet was amazing in terms of thoroughness and compassion. Despite their efforts, though, things didn’t end well, and we had to say goodbye to Mittens. I’m trying to process everything, and I keep coming back to how supportive the vet was through the whole ordeal. Part of me wants to send a thank you card to express my gratitude for their dedication and kindness, but another part of me wonders if it's weird or inappropriate given the outcome. Has anyone else been in this situation? How did you handle it? Any thoughts or advice would be really appreciated right now. Thanks in advance.
Hi there,
I'm really sorry to hear you've been through a tough time with your cat. It's completely natural to want to express gratitude, even when the outcome wasn't what you hoped for. Vets and their teams work with all their hearts to take care of our furry family members, and expressing thanks can be comforting for both you and them.
Sending a thank you card is a kind gesture and can provide closure as you navigate your feelings. It not only acknowledges the effort put in by your vet but also strengthens your bond with them. You can share your appreciation for their care, such as how they communicated or the compassion they showed.
If you're feeling up to it, consider reflecting on the positive moments and support during your visits. Vets deeply care about the wellbeing of every pet and owner, and your card will likely be appreciated more than you know.
Take care of yourself during this time, and if you need any support or want to chat more about your experiences, please consider booking a video consult with Dial A Vet. We're here for you whenever you need.
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