I'm really struggling and could use some advice. My 15-year-old cat, Whiskers, has been with me through so many life changes, and it's breaking my heart to see her in pain. She has arthritis and lately has been refusing to eat; she's lost so much weight and just seems so tired. I've tried everything from changing her diet to giving her medications the vet recommended, but nothing seems to help. I'm torn because I don’t want to say goodbye too soon, but I also don't want her to suffer if she still has some good days left. I’ve read articles and talked to a few friends, but I’m feeling so lost. How did you know when it was the right time to let go? I just want to do what's best for her. Any advice or personal experiences would really be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Hello, and thank you for reaching out with such an important question. I know how difficult it can be to think about this decision. Euthanasia is a deeply personal choice, and it often hinges on your pet's quality of life. Some signs indicating it might be time include consistent pain that doesn't improve with treatment, no longer eating or drinking, difficulty moving around, or a loss of interest in activities they used to enjoy.
At home, you can try to make your pet comfortable by providing a soft, warm place to rest and ensuring they have access to food and water. Gentle, soothing interactions can also help comfort your pet.
Be on the lookout for any major changes in behavior like severe lethargy, respiratory difficulties, or any signs of distress like crying or whining. If you notice these, it’s important to consult with a vet as soon as possible.
Taking this step is never easy, but it’s often a compassionate choice when your pet is suffering. If you're unsure, booking a video consult with one of our veterinarians on Dial A Vet can provide the guidance and support you need to make the best decision for your pet and your family.
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