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Question:

How to get neutered male cats to stop trying to kill each other.

I'm really hoping to get some advice because I'm at my wit’s end here. I have two male cats, Max and Jasper, both neutered, and they used to be inseparable. Recently, things have taken a turn for the worse, and I can't figure out why. They've started attacking each other with such intensity it’s terrifying. I’ve tried separating them, giving them each their own space with resources, and even using calming diffusers, but nothing seems to work. It breaks my heart to see them like this, and I’m scared someone’s going to end up hurt. Has anyone else been through this kind of situation and found a solution that works? Any thoughts on what might be triggering this behavior or what steps I could take next? Thanks in advance—I could really use some support right now!

Answer:

Hi there! I'm sorry to hear your kitties are having trouble getting along. It can be quite stressful when our furry friends aren't seeing eye to eye. Let's see if we can help smooth things out.



Even though your cats are neutered, they can sometimes get into territorial disputes or have disagreements about their living arrangements. It's not uncommon, but there are ways to help decrease the tension.



First, make sure each cat has its own space. Separate feeding areas, litter boxes, and cozy spots to rest can do wonders. Cats appreciate their territories, and not having to compete for resources can ease conflicts.



Try engaging them in playtime separately to burn off some of that extra energy. Interactive toys can be great for this. Also, consider using calming sprays or diffusers, which emit synthetic pheromones that can help reduce stress and promote peace.



Keep an eye on them, especially for signs like excessive hiding, loss of appetite, or injuries from fights. These could indicate more serious stress or health issues.



If you're finding that things aren't improving, or if you're worried about possible injuries or stress levels, it's a good idea to book a video consult with one of our vets at Dial A Vet. They'll be able to provide more tailored advice for your situation.

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 20, 2025

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