I'm here looking for some advice and maybe a bit of comfort. I've had my fluffy companion, Mittens, for over 15 years now, and she's truly been my best friend through all of life's ups and downs. Recently, the vet confirmed what I was dreading—she doesn't have much time left due to her kidney failure. I'm an emotional wreck, trying to be strong for her but failing miserably. How do I even begin to prepare myself for saying goodbye? I feel so lost and terrified of the emptiness that will be left behind once she's gone. I've started making her more comfortable at home and showering her with all the love I can muster, but the thought of her not being around just breaks me. Any advice on how to cope with this or what I can do to make her remaining time as peaceful as possible would be really appreciated. Thank you for reading.
I'm so sorry to hear that your cat is nearing the end of their life. It's a heartbreaking situation, and preparing for it emotionally and practically can be challenging. It’s important to focus on making your cat as comfortable and loved as possible.
Cats at the end of life might show signs of decreased appetite, increased sleep, lack of interest in things they once enjoyed, or significant weight loss. Keep their environment calm and quiet, provide them with cozy spots to rest, and continue offering their favorite treats or wet food, even if they eat only small amounts.
You can help soothe them by gently petting their favorite places, and maintaining a routine can be comforting too. Make sure they can easily access food, water, and the litter box, adjusting as needed if mobility becomes an issue.
Monitor for any signs of distress or pain, such as vocalizing more than usual, hiding, or changes in breathing. These can indicate that they might need veterinary attention to manage discomfort.
Navigating these moments can be emotionally taxing. It can be very helpful to have a compassionate professional to support you through this time. I encourage you to book a video consult with one of our vets on Dial A Vet. We'll be there to offer guidance specific to your cat's needs and provide emotional support to you as well.
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