I’m really struggling and need some advice. My sweet senior dog, Max, is 16 years old and lately he's been having a really hard time. He's almost completely blind now, and his arthritis is so bad that some days he can barely get up. We’ve tried different medications and therapies, but nothing seems to help anymore, and it breaks my heart to see him suffer. I went to the vet thinking it might be time to say goodbye, but the vet, a new one we haven't seen before, said he didn't think euthanasia was the right option yet. He suggested trying a new pain management plan instead. I’m torn because I don’t want him to be in pain, but I also don’t want to give up on him if there’s more I can do. Am I giving up too early? Is the vet right and I need to reconsider? It’s just so heartbreaking to see him struggle, and I want to make sure I'm doing the best for him. What would you do in my situation?
Hello there,
I'm genuinely sorry to hear you're facing this difficult decision with your beloved companion. It’s completely normal to feel uncertain and seek reassurance about what’s best for your pet’s well-being.
Veterinarians aim to provide the best quality of life for pets. Sometimes, if a dog maintains a decent quality of life, a vet might suggest other options before considering euthanasia. Factors they consider include pain levels, ability to eat, drink, move, and enjoy life, plus any signs of severe distress.
It might be worthwhile to consider aspects such as whether your dog can still enjoy daily activities, whether they’re in uncontrollable pain, and if there are more good days than bad. If your vet thinks there are manageability options for your dog’s condition, they may propose treatments to improve the quality of life.
Meanwhile, you can focus on making your pet as comfortable as possible. Ensure they have a soft place to rest, maintain regular meals, and monitor their hydration. Keep an eye out for signs such as persistent pain, breathing difficulty, or a significant decrease in appetite, which could indicate it’s time for more serious discussions.
For further guidance and to share your concerns, I recommend booking a video consult with Dial A Vet. We can explore options that compassionately prioritize your pet’s well-being together.
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