Help, I’m really worried about what my vet might think of me as a pet parent. I have a lovely long-haired cat named Whiskers, and lately, I’ve been struggling to keep up with his grooming needs. Between work and just life getting crazier every day, his fur has become tangled, and he's got some mats that I just can't seem to tackle on my own. I feel incredibly guilty every time I look at him. I’ve been too embarrassed to take him to get professionally groomed because I'm scared the vet or the groomer will think I'm neglecting him. He’s such a sweet kitty and deserves the best care, I just feel like I’m failing him right now. Does anyone have advice on whether it’s okay to seek professional help without being judged, or tips on how I can fix this at home? Any support would mean the world.
Thanks for reaching out with your question! Please know that most vets don't judge pet owners—our main goal is to help you and your furry friend live a happy, healthy life together. Cats are generally good at grooming themselves, but they sometimes need a little extra help.
If your cat isn’t grooming itself, there could be a few reasons for this. Overweight cats often have trouble reaching certain areas, while older cats might have arthritis, making it painful to twist and turn. Dental issues can also affect grooming because a sore mouth can make it difficult for your cat to clean itself using its tongue.
At home, you can assist by gently brushing your cat. Start with short sessions to see how your cat reacts. Keep an eye out for any mats or tangles that might be bothering them, focusing on areas like behind the ears and under the legs. Regular brushing not only helps keep their coat clean but also strengthens your bond.
Watch for signs of a problem, such as sudden changes in grooming behavior, skin irritation, or if your cat seems lethargic. These might require a vet's attention.
If you're worried or notice any concerning signs, it might be a good idea to book a video consult with Dial A Vet to discuss this in more detail. We’re here to help!
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