I'm feeling really overwhelmed and could use some advice from fellow pet lovers. I have two adorable tabby cats, Luna and Shadow, who just got spayed yesterday. The vet mentioned that I might need to keep them apart for a bit while they heal, which seems so stressful! They’ve literally never been apart since they were kittens, and whenever I try to separate them into different rooms, they both just meow constantly until I let them back together. I’m worried about their stitches and if they'll bother each other's wounds. But honestly, I can’t stand seeing them so upset and agitated when they’re not around each other. Has anyone else been through this? Do they really need to be kept apart, or is there a way I can keep them together safely? I’m trying to do what’s best for them but feel like I’m failing at this pet parent thing. Any help or reassurance would be so appreciated!
Hello there!
It’s great that you're thinking ahead about your cat's care. Neutering or spaying is a common procedure with many benefits, but you’re right to consider the aftercare.
After surgery, it's typically advised to give your cat a quiet, safe space away from other pets. This helps them recover without added stress or risk of injury while they're still healing. Some cats might feel a little groggy or sensitive due to the anesthesia, and separation prevents playful tussles or accidents that could harm their surgical site.
Keep the room comfy with a soft bed and ensure there's plenty of fresh water available. Limiting their activity for about 10–14 days helps in healing. Use an Elizabethan collar if they’re tempted to lick the incision, as this can lead to infection.
Watch for any signs of complications, such as excessive bleeding, swelling, or if your cat seems particularly lethargic or refuses to eat. These could indicate infection or other issues that need veterinary attention.
If you notice any concerning signs or have more questions about their recovery, a video consult through Dial A Vet would be the perfect way to get personalized advice. We're here to help ensure your furry friend gets back to their purring self in no time!
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