I'm really struggling with something and could use some clarity. My dog, Max, a sweet 8-year-old golden retriever, passed away recently, and I'm worried that it might have been my fault. With work getting crazy the last few months, I haven't been able to spend as much time with him as I used to. He spent most days alone, and sometimes I even missed his walks when I came home exhausted. His water bowl occasionally went dry before I noticed, and he looked a bit thinner. I thought I was doing my best, but now I'm second-guessing everything. The vet said it was a heart issue, but I can't shake the feeling that my lack of attention contributed to it. Did I let him down? Has anyone else gone through something similar? Could really use some advice or reassurance here.
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. Losing a pet is incredibly difficult, and it’s natural to have many questions about what happened. Neglect is a serious concern, but please know that there could be various reasons for your dog’s passing.
Sometimes, health issues in pets can go unnoticed even by the most attentive owners. Dogs might not show obvious symptoms until a condition becomes advanced. Common causes of sudden pet health issues include undiagnosed illnesses like heart disease, kidney problems, or infections.
You might have noticed subtle changes such as low energy, changes in appetite, or unusual behavior. While these can be signs of minor issues, they can also indicate serious underlying conditions. In the future, regular veterinary check-ups can help catch these problems early.
For at-home care, maintain a healthy diet, ensure regular exercise, and provide a safe, clean environment. Recognizing signs like difficulty breathing, severe lethargy, sudden weight loss, or persistent vomiting can help in seeking prompt veterinary care.
I genuinely urge you to consider a video consultation with one of our vets at Dial A Vet for a more specific discussion. We can help provide clarity and recommend steps to prevent future issues with any other pets you might have.
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