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Cat was euthanized at my home today and went horribly

I'm reaching out here because I'm just feeling all kinds of shaken up and could really use some advice or support. Today has been absolutely heartbreaking. I made the incredibly difficult decision to have my beloved cat put to sleep at home, thinking it would be a more peaceful experience for both of us. But things didn’t go as I imagined; it was like my worst nightmare. Everything started okay, but then something went horribly wrong, and my poor baby seemed to be in distress during what was supposed to be a peaceful passing. The vet seemed calm, but I felt helpless and panicked watching him struggle. I'm wracked with guilt and can't stop replaying it in my head. Has anyone been through a similar experience or have any advice on how to cope with this? I just feel so heartbroken and devastated right now. Thank you for listening.

Answer:

I'm so incredibly sorry to hear about your experience today. Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is hard enough, and it sounds like it was particularly distressing for you. Euthanasia is meant to be a peaceful process, providing comfort to both the pet and the owner, but sometimes things don't go as smoothly as we hope.



Common issues that can arise include difficulty finding a vein, unexpected reactions to the sedative, or involuntary movements from your pet. It's important to remember that your cat likely didn't feel pain due to the sedatives, although it might have looked distressing. Sometimes muscle tremors or reflexes occur, which can be unsettling to witness but are a normal physiological response.



At home, taking some time to grieve and remember your cat in a way that's meaningful to you can be very healing. Watch for feelings of guilt or distress that linger or worsen; talking through these with a professional can be beneficial.



If any signs of significant emotional distress persist, I strongly encourage booking a video consult with us. Talking through what happened and addressing any lingering fears or questions you have with a veterinarian who understands can be an important step in processing this experience. We're here to support you in any way we can.

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 20, 2025

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