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Question:

Can you please share some words of wisdom with me after having to put my best friend to sleep?

I’m feeling so lost right now and could really use some support. I had to make the heartbreaking decision to put my dear Max to sleep yesterday afternoon, and my heart just feels shattered into a million pieces. He’s been by my side for over ten years, from those early chaotic puppy days to his sweet, gentle older years. Every corner of the house feels so empty without him following me around or curling up next to me on the couch. I keep catching myself listening for him or expecting his little paws on the floor, but it’s all just silence now. I guess I’m just wondering how people cope with this kind of loss. If anyone has been through something similar, I’d appreciate hearing how you managed to find peace and move forward.

Answer:

I'm truly sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved friend. It’s completely understandable to feel a deep sense of grief and emptiness right now. Pets are cherished family members, and letting go is never easy.



During this difficult time, it might help to focus on the joy and love you shared with your pet. Remember the playful moments, the comfort they gave, and the unique bond you formed. These memories can be comforting reminders of your pet’s life and the happiness they brought into yours.



It’s also important to be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Everyone processes loss differently, so take the time you need, and reach out to friends, family, or support groups who understand what you're going through.



At home, you might create a small tribute or memory corner, maybe with a photo or special item that reminds you of the happy times you spent together.



If you find that the grief feels overwhelming or persists, consider reaching out to a support group or counselor who specializes in pet loss. They can provide a safe space to express your feelings and guide you through healing.



When you're ready, feel free to book a video consult with Dial A Vet. We’re here to support you in any way you need during this time.

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 30, 2025

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