I'm really struggling with what to do for my sweet old girl, Daisy. She's a 14-year-old Lab, and she's been my rock for so long, but her arthritis is getting really bad and she's now having trouble even standing up. She's on meds, but they don't seem to be helping much anymore. She's still eating, but it's definitely less than before, and it's breaking my heart to see her like this. I don't want to make her stay longer just for me, but how do I really know it's time? Do I need to wait until she stops eating completely before making the final decision? I really need advice from anyone who's gone through this because I'm so scared of making the wrong choice. Any thoughts or experiences shared would mean the world to me right now. Thanks so much.
Hi there,
First off, I'm so sorry to hear that you're facing this difficult decision. It's never easy to consider euthanasia for a beloved pet. The question of timing can be heart-wrenching, and I'm here to offer some guidance.
It's a common thought that we should wait until a pet stops eating, but that's not always the best indicator. Instead, think about your pet’s quality of life. Is she still able to do the things she enjoys? Are there more bad days than good? Other signs to watch for include prolonged pain, trouble breathing, or inability to move comfortably.
If your pet is still eating but showing these other signs of distress, it might be time to consider that her quality of life is not as it should be. At-home care can include keeping her comfortable with a cozy bed, ensuring easy access to water, and sticking to her favorite routines as much as possible.
Watch for signs like extreme weight loss, vomiting, diarrhea, or labored breathing, which can indicate a serious issue. If you're seeing these, it might be time for a more urgent decision.
I truly understand how tough this is, and you don’t have to make the decision alone. Let's set up a video consult on Dial A Vet to discuss your specific situation and find the best path forward for your beloved friend.
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