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Question:

Am I giving up on my cat?

I don’t know what is happening, but I feel so overwhelmed right now. I’ve had my cat, Milo, for five years, and I always imagined us growing old together. Lately, he’s been peeing outside of his litter box and scratching up the furniture, even though he never used to do that before. I’ve tried different litters, moved the box to quieter locations, and even took him to the vet to rule out health issues. It’s been stressful, and I’m losing sleep over it. I love him to bits, but I’m starting to feel like I’m at my wit’s end. My apartment is tiny and I have a demanding job; I just don’t know if I have what it takes to handle this. Does anyone have any advice? Am I a terrible person for even considering this might be too much for me?

Answer:

Thanks for reaching out with your concern. I'm here to help, and you're definitely not giving up by seeking advice. It sounds like you're worried about your cat, and that's the first step in ensuring their well-being.



If your cat is showing signs of being unwell, there could be several reasons behind it. Common issues include changes in diet or routine, stress, or medical conditions such as dental problems, digestive issues, or infections. Cats can be quite sensitive, and even a small change in their environment can affect them.



At home, keep an eye on your cat’s eating, drinking, and litter box habits. Make sure they have a quiet and comfortable space to relax. Encouraging play and gentle interaction can help if stress is a factor.



Watch for signs like persistent vomiting or diarrhea, a noticeable change in appetite or weight, listlessness, or any difficulty breathing. These could indicate more serious health issues needing immediate veterinary care.



If you're still concerned, I recommend booking a video consult with us at Dial A Vet. We can delve deeper into your cat’s symptoms and offer specific advice tailored to their needs. Your commitment to their health shows how much you care, and we're here to support you along the way.

Answered by

Louise - Senior Veterinary Nurse, Dial A Vet

June 24, 2025

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